Hi, so once again I am putting myself out there. I knew this wasn’t going to be easy and I don’t give up easily. I might have to take a rest from time to time but I won't give up.

I am looking to build a relationship with a man. Someone I can talk to and we can actually see a future together. It’s nice to pretend but I like someone in my reality.

You have to have time to date and if you don’t have time to date it really won't work. Quality time and attention I found is what I really need.

Young or old doesn’t matter to me. The connection and conversation does.

• If I feel I can’t talk with you then I wont reach out to you. So Hey, Hi….short replies I delete you can’t handle conversation with a dominant talker like me.

I need someone I can talk to but is open enough for me to be able to ask questions back. Short replies make it hard for me to ask you a question back. I have nothing to go off of. I love conversation and can talk about a lot of different things. ( not a sports lover sorry)

So if you're done pretending and want to work on something real and actually meet each other, let's start talking/exchanging photos, move to phone calls, and video chat. If we still feel comfortable then we keep making plans to meet each other.

I want someone in my life.

Some things about me:

Single- over a year now

Monogamous

Straight

No children

Never married

Don’t smoke- not even pot

Drinking- 1 or 2 times a year and never been drunk. Alcohol tastes bad to me.

Likes:

• -Camping: once to twice a year and that is because my friend and I go but wouldn’t mind more often. She has a nice tent and said I could use it when ever.
• -Learning new things and growth. Emotionally, physically, and mentally I have goals and things I am passionate about. I am my own person and quite aware of the things around me.
• -Hiking: I try to do that from May to September and I am a slow hiker. I like to enjoy what is around me. I don’t do it as a workout. So the longest one I have done is 9 miles and that took us a while to do. Like 6 hours. We bought lunch too.
• -Gym: I work out 5 times a week. I sometimes try to get in at 6 but do at least 5 times a week for about 30 to 1 hour. I am not super in shape. I do this to be healthy and to move. I joined in November but hadn’t really been in a gym for 3 years due to covid and my location didn’t have very good gyms at the time. I worked out at home.
• -Movies- I am all over the place and enjoy talking about them. So you can just ask if I saw it. I like action, sci-fi, doc,foreign films with subtitles.
• -Music- 50’s, 80’s, alternative, and EDM- motivational videos on Youtube. ( not really into crowds or live music)
• -I do crafts when not working- so enjoy making things by hand and the challenge of learning something new that I can use in art medium.

Things I like to do:

Travel I haven’t traveled a lot. I mean when I was younger I did a lot of travel in like 3 years and then it just stopped and I never traveled again. Financially just wasn’t possible. So I like to learn more about traveling.

Have a relationship with a man who knows what he wants, has goals, and wants things in his life and goes for them.

You live far…away:

So you live out of State or possibly out of this country. I am looking for something real. So if you're not in a place right now to focus on me. Then it wont work. If you're too busy and you can’t fit me into your life…it wont work. I have met some nice guys here who do live out of state but they have 0 intention of actually ever meeting me and that have no time/ money to even come visit me.

Don’t waste my time.

If you're a busy person you know time is something that is precious. I am here because I don’t come around single men in my everyday life. I haven’t been around a single person in years. Most people assume I am already married and some think I already have kids. I don’t and it’s a bit of a shock to them when I tell them.

So if interested let's start talking and see if we can arrange to meet one another and build a future together. I am a patient person but only to a point and do want to slowly build this together but it takes two of us to do this. Not one person doing all the work.