**Please don't message me if you're not going to read my post and then send me a one worded reply. I do live with my mom and help her as she is disabled so I don't plan on moving from Arizona for a long time since I help support her.**
I'm looking for a long term monogamous relationship that could end up in marriage but doesn't have to be marriage. I want a partner that I can trust to be there for me and can keep their word but follow through on commitments. Ideally a partner who can be my best friend and someone I can see growing old together with playing video games and other fun stuff. Finding a partner with a fun-loving and light-hearted attitude but someone who can appreciate my need for some space once in a while as interaction with people can be draining for an introvert. I like alone time to process thoughts and feelings since those can easily overwhelm me.
On the Meyers Briggs personality tests I usually get that I'm an ISTJ but knowing your personality type helps to understand one better in my opinion. I don't like going outside that often if I don't need to and I hate going out to social events like bars or parties. I do like being outdoors in nature and do miss hiking through new places but for the most part I'd rather stay inside having a nerf gun fight and building pillow forts. I don't drink anymore and don't smoke since I have asthma but I do get sick a lot when I'm around smokers. I am 420 friendly though and do enjoy edibles from time to time.
I've been into video games ever since I was young enough to remember but my first console was the Nintendo 64 and my first handheld was the original Gameboy. I was a total Pokemon fan growing up as well but lost my card collection a long time ago. I've owned just about every gaming platform at some point but right now I just have my gaming computer and my neglected Nintendo Switch. I have over 400 games on Steam but some of my favorite games are; Zelda: Breath of the Wild, Mass Effect, The Elder Scrolls series, Fallout, Dragon Age, Red Dead 2, Assassin's Creed, Half Life, Portal, Detroit Become Human, Death Stranding, and Sims 4.
I'm child free and I don't want kids ever. I have a medical condition, PCOS, that makes me infertile with other side effects but I am Pro-Choice. My PCOS has lead me to gain weight so I'm overweight as well.
I love my pets and can't imagine living life without them in my life so if your allergic to cats or dogs it may not work out. I've had pets all my life and would love to swap cute pet pictures and memes.
I'm vaccinated and also work the night shift which my put off people as well. I've worked the same job for years now and love it since it's pretty stress/anxiety free for me. I'm also not that religious at all but maybe a little more spiritual.
I love books and have owned many growing up. I actually have accumulated so many paperbacks and hardbacks that I had to switch to a kindle to hold all the books I want to read. Pretty sure I share the same obsession with collecting books at the same rate I collect video games for my Steam library. I like Romance, Horror, Thriller, Scifi, Cyberpunk, Action/Adventure. I like the Dragonlance Series, pretty much anything written by Dean Koontz, Stephen King, Kathy Reichs, and other random authors that have good reviews. β’Comic Book Nerd/Scifi Geek - I love reading comic books and so far have read: X-Men, Preacher, Deadpool, and The Boys. I also love scifi stuff and find technology that helps advance the way of life like Star Trek interesting :)
My list of shows I enjoy is rather large so I will include a few here. Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Bones, CSI Las Vegas, Lucifer, Supernatural, The Boys, The Originals, The Orville, What We Do In The Shadows, Westworld, Game of Thrones, Preacher, Torchwood, Star Trek, Doctor Who, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, You.
Anime - I'm a bit more picky with Anime to be honest so I haven't watched as much but ones that I enjoyed so far: Cowboy Bebop, Trigun, Ergo Proxy, Steins Gate, Psycho Mob 100, Sword Art Online and Konosuba.
I have ADHD and Anxiety which makes it hard for me to have friends. Also a challenge when trying to date as well. I would appreciate a partner who understands someone else having this as well. I do take medication to help manage it though but again I would like to have someone who understands and not thinks I'm playing stupid/dumb/forgetting on purpose, ect.
I love to write fanfiction and I'm also into literary roleplaying but not so much erp. I have about 17 years worth of writing but have been slowly starting to publish it online. I also love to cook and I am rather good at it but I don't like to do it all the time. I haven't done it recently but I do miss hiking in nature. I also love to binge watch shows and movies. I would love to learn how to play D&D someday.
I do have other messaging platforms as I don't plan on messaging on Reddit forever. But please no ghosting and don't be afraid to tell me if you're not interested as I will do the same. If you don't live in Arizona keep in mind that I am not going to be moving out of state so if it's long distance you would need to move here eventually.
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