People say today is a day with a mirror date, lucky for meeting someone for a lifelong relationship. That intro is just a joke; I don't believe in horoscops or special dates.

This text is written for a single, marriage-minded man without kids who is able to meet in real life in 1 or 1.5 months. We can meet outside of Ukraine in a neighboring country where you will be safer. You can be a Christian (not practicing is ok) or a non-believer. You are strictly heterosexual, a traditional gentleman, and you are preferably your own boss or have such plans.

You've probably seen my previous posts. I am an expert at picking the wrong man, trusting too quickly, and believing words that will never be true. Since that sad experience, I think it will be better not to trust any words, at least until we meet in real life. Please text only if you are able to meet in real life soon (in case the conversation goes well).

I'm a single female from Ukraine (can meet with you in another country, which is more safe for you). I search for a single childless man older than 35 (older- better, because I haven't met a mature person younger that age, but maybe some younger genius will become an exception) for a serious relationship, first without physical aspects. Sometimes men expect this aspect very quickly and leave fast if not get it soon. In my opinion, this means the first interest was not in the relationship itself but in physical aspects, that's why I want to find a relationship first without it. So I can be sure that a man stays near me because he really likes me, not for physical satisfaction itself. That means not only one sphere of relationship. People are divided into two groups.Those who give more than they take and opposite. Wishing to gain satisfaction quickly leads to frustration and disappointment.

I have received a few marriage offers in the past, but felt that it were not serious because the men were too young, not well settled, and made these offers trying to gain something. Being not a young girl, I still wait for a right person—a man who will be happy staying with me and will do everything for me. Wished person is his own boss and master thought being employee with a plan to become self boss one day is fine too. If things work I can relocate to you or to invite you to live in Ukraine after the war ends. If you are able to set up app called te1 leg ra1m for chat and meet in real life within next 1-1.5 months then please text me. I prefer well written letter that was sent in inbox letters, not in chat requests.

Now you know a little bit more about me. Never been married, no kids (will not have in nearest time but not a childfree), no pets (had shepard, after his death desided not to have new). Was raised in small village at farmer's house (nature was great but didn't like hard work lifestyle) and prefer city life. I don't smoke, don't drink alcohol . You will not have to suffer dealing with numerous people around me because I don't have friends (people disappear when interests and lifestyles become different) and my family is very small, only one relative. I don't visit bars, clubs, or parties, and not addicted to social networks. I enjoy reading (both fiction and nonfiction), watching movies (arthouse or otherwise), visiting art and historic museums and theaters, and traveling to new places. Recent time for many reasons I practice only reading as a hobby. As an introvert I can't open to someone fast because have been cheated by those whom trusted. Life teaches us that only real actions, not just words, reveal a person's true intentions.

Now about two negative moments. The first is my passivity. I was rised in culture where it was consider vulgar if woman is too active in path of creating relationship. Yes, it is obvious that active women will achieve success sooner than passive ones, but I can't help but prefer the one who will take initiative, who will not expect me to run after him, and who will text me first if such a wish appears after a good conversation. I don't run after man and will not annoy with endless texting to that one who doesn't show interest to be active himself.

The second negative moment is that, being introverted, I totally dislike situations when I have to contact with unknown people, especially with men, especially in the field of relationship. That sounds not logical because how can someone know anyone if he/she doesn't like starting this contact? There is only one solution for me. I can start contact only if I have already got very detailled information about person so this makes illusion that he is already not a stranger. Most of men send short message, expecting that I will ask many questions trying to find out his personality. Truth is that I will not do it. Yes, you can call me bad for that but I will only reply to a well written detailled letter from someone who will not make me ask many questions but will write a proper letter by himself. Man's appearence means nothing for me, but honesty is very valuable, what he says and what is more important, what he does - that's important.

That were negative moments. Obviously, there are much more of them, but I'll let you discover the size of all iceberg by yourself. Thanks for reading.