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37 [m4f] India / Anywhere - Do you exist? Does anyone?
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ThisIsSoooStupid is a male age 37 looking for a female in India
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I am looking for someone who's somewhat similar to me possibly for something that lasts a decent amount of time.

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​This is some random basic info about me:

​• My sense of humour is silly (as is this post), dark and sarcastic. I am silly too. You'd have to be ok with me saying stupid silly stuff. I am one of those people who like to roast. I can use some roasting too. But know this, I'd never say things to hurt someone on purpose. It's sometimes difficult to gauge if someone is feeling hurt when you are texting, so please, know how to communicate what you are feeling so I won't make an ass out of myself.

​• I drink socially but in the company of a select few. My annual average is 10-20 times (40-60 drinks). And never more than 5, unless I am at a fest and drinking from 4-12.

​• I seldom smoke; Only when I am drunk

​• I don't care for tattoos ( I am neutral towards them on other people), and I don't think I'll ever get one, too indecisive.

​• I am an Atheist.

​• Nothing moves me more than music.

​• I am driven by logic. A bit too much. It’s getting exhausting.

​• I am politically a left social moderate. Which is just very slightly left to the dead centre of a political map. It means that I agree with some things that are left and some things that are on right. I support a mixed economy, I am not a conservative and believe in the separation of religion and state.

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​What do I love?

• My fav movie is School of Rock. LOTR, Red, and the Bourne series are my fav movie franchises. I can watch the shittiest of Superhero movies and enjoy them. I didn't know Catwoman was that hated till I joined Reddit.

​• I love reading but I am not into novels or books. I used to read a lot about history, philosophy and Science related stuff online. Now it's just tech and mostly youtube. So, maybe I don't. Damn!

​• I am mostly a Sci-fi and Sitcom fan. My fav TV shows are Stein's Gate, Doctor Who and FRIENDS.

​• I have an eclectic taste in music but I am primarily into Rock music. Classic rock and progressive rock are my fav sub-genres. Since the 2010s I've heavily been into Electropop/Synthpop revival.

​• I am a Dog person. I do love cats but if I ever get a pet then it'll be a dog. Probably a black Lab? Most likely I'll never have pets.

​• I used to be a casual gamer, been a while since I played a game. I do play CoC.

​• I am very much into photography and loved carrying my DSLR with me as much as I could. At least I did in the pre-covid world. Would love to get started again someday.

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​Things I would want to do

• To move to another country, UK, Nordic, or Canada. Looks impossible with each passing day.

• To be able to go across the world, witnessing native culture and most importantly authentic food first-hand.​

• To have a Game/Media room with a wall-sized projector, a badass PC to go along and a racing game controller fixed in the centre.

​• To live in a small cottage on some secluded hilltop with a backyard observatory for capturing Stars and far away galaxies.

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​Who am I?

​• Brown eyes, Black Hair, wear glasses, Indian and have been called Handsome by women that were not my mom.​

• I like to have that 5 o'clock shadow going but I do often shave it all up.

​• I am about 170 cm and weigh around 72 KG right now (I know that’s ‘fit’ weight for men usually, but it isn’t for me, I have a thinner frame, so there’s some room for improvement).​

• I am always trying to be a bit healthier and a better human in general.

​• I think I am a nice person, or I try to be one to the best of my capabilities.

​• I don’t curse others in anger because hurting someone with words is not worth feeling shit about yourself.

​• I am a geeky curious person. I’d rather be learning about things that help me in no way to forward my life than do something useful. It’s more of a curse.

​• I am so easily distracted that I probably have ADD. I can go overboard talking about something as well so if that happens, ask me to shut up.

​• I murder animals for taste buds (not really, I haven’t killed anything but I do eat meat, mostly chicken)

• Someone who is open to criticism, and looking to learn and improve as we go.

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​Who you are supposed to be?

​• Music means a lot to you as well, you’d be ok with attending most types of concerts as long as you have the right kind of company (me).​

• You are either an atheist or agnostic. You can be spiritual if you are otherwise awesome.

​• You’d love to try tasting some new food and understand that different cultures have different tastes in food.

​• You are not a vegetarian/vegan.

​• You love cooking, and love trying new recipes even more (So we can do that together)

​• You are a good human

• You'd also like to move to another country or already have or are from someplace that is much more liberal, socially and politically

​• You are not easily offended. Dark, sarcastic, and rude humour doesn’t mean that someone doesn’t care for you. And you understand that you can find something sad and yet see the humour in it.

​• You’ve read this boring ass post because you can’t believe that someone so similar and specific exists and is desperate enough to use R4R.

​• You agree that love for food and love for health can co-exist, and they often should.

​• You find 'attitude' as annoying of a descriptor for women as you do 'egoistic' for men.

​• You genuinely love talking about multitudes of things and can debate angrily about something and yet not hate the person that won’t agree with you.

​• You are driven by logic too and I’d be the stupid you do.

​• You are not in general addicted to anything.

​• Your idea of being drunk is to just get that buzz going, never to lose control. You’ve never been so drunk that you can’t recall what happened. (ok maybe once or twice is fine).

​• You understand that to build something that lasts for a long term we will have to tolerate each other's shortcomings while being able to communicate what and how we can improve, and not slam a door on someone's face the first time you are mildly annoyed.

​Obviously, not everything on that list is important, the most important aspects of that list are the ones related to music, food, and religion. Please direct your questions, pity, hate, and anger toward my inbox. I’d love to hear from you if you are even half of what I've rambled on about; because being logical is on the list.

TL;DR: Looking for a geeky non-religious music lover for friendship or more. please reply with at least a small intro and possibly explain why we'd get along!

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