*Apologies as I know you've seen this same post on here often but I edited it just a tad. Give it a read if you want. If not it's all good.

I apologize for the length as it's a bit of a read and doesn't quite make grammatical sense in some spots. The reason it says M4R is because it's Male for Redditor as in I mainly like women but i also like a very very very specific type of guy as i'm partially bi. Chances are you aren't that type but feel free to ask if you are. Just throwing that out there as it's a deal breaker for most women. I'm a 34 year old guy living in the middle-ish of Texas looking for a female partner. Partner as in LTR. That's Long Term Relationship meaning boyfriend and girlfriend and holding hands type of stuff. You know, adult things? I had someone comment I was too vague so this is me being specific. I'm gonna be honest and kinda sad so bare with me.

So I spent New Years alone. Rang in the New Year in bed staring at the ceiling listening to fireworks go off into the night. The next day I cried randomly while browsing for a movie to watch. At first I didn't know why as i'm not much of a crier but I realized for the first time in a long time I genuinely felt alone. I had no partner, no family, no friends, absolutely no one there for me. That's my own doing which took years and years to accomplish and I figure it might take just as long to fix. I'm not complaining as I got myself into the mess. It's gonna sound dumb but I wanted a New Years kiss. I've never had one and it seemed like a fun dumb silly thing to do. Eh maybe one day. Ok well back to my spiel. (I'm not depressed or anything or wanting attention) Some of my hobbies and interests are movies, reading, cooking, kayaking, records, video games, board games, snorkeling, bowling, swimming, escape rooms, puzzles and antiquing. I would describe myself as more goofy and dorky than nerdy. I like to go out and do fun things but also stay in and cuddle and relax. I guess it depends on my mood and the weather. Heat kills O_o I prefer the cold and would love to live in a state with actual seasons and snow. I'm 5'10, stocky, 34 and open for adventure and new experiences.

Here are some random facts about me:

Some of my favorite bands are: The Black Keys, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Creedence Clearwater Revival and The White Stripes.

Christmas is my favorite holiday, mainly because of the cold.

I come from a medium-ish family.

My favorite colors are black and white.

I like traveling a lot. It's a basic thing that lots of people like. But lots of people hate it. I also enjoy the mountains. But I don't like roughing it (give me that sweet AC in the summer). Hiking is so hard on my knees and I haven't done it in a while that if I were to I think i'd about die or twist a kankle.

I don't eat seafood, mushrooms, artichokes or pineapple on pizza (Who cares about this? Doesn't mean i won't go to a restaurant with you that has these things)

Never went to college as i'm horrible in a classroom setting.

Have probably the most boring job imaginable (Ask me about it)

Overweight but working on better choices (Get healthier together?)

Non religious but no issue with what you believe if anything.

Looking into sterilization. If you are already maybe you can give me some info or tips?

My own redflags 🚩

I work too much and sometimes can't talk.

I send selfies often. I'm a visual person and like photos. Apparently it's a generational thing. Hopefully you think pictures as well?

I sometimes speedily become attached to people, not in a weird way, but if I like you and we have some kind of connection, I will enjoy talking to you and want to do it often.

I'm a very organized person and will plan out pretty much anything from a vacation to a road trip to a birthday. This makes being with a go with the flow type of person hard at times i've learned but doable.

Due to childhood trauma i'm secretive.

MY own "HELL YES" 🏁

I know how to cook.

I will always drive.

Great at escape rooms and jigsaw puzzles.

Can read a map.

Decent at reading backwards upside down writing.

What I'm looking for:

Is my age or older. But I'm willing to go lowerquite a bit if you are neat and we have stuff in common.

Mature, considerate, responsible and funny (Dorky wouldn't hurt)

Someone who never cheats, honesty and trust are important to me

Someone who is open-minded, willing to try new things, be adventurous, funny and nerdy

Someone who believes in sharing household chores equally because we are both adults

Be open and frank about issues you or I are having. Not pushy or jealous. Won't yell or argue about stupid things, I've had enough of that.

Willing to push me to become a better version of myself (Can you turn me into Batman?)

If this sounds like you then feel free to reach out and say hi or challenge me to a game of Scrabble/Pictionary/hand to hand combat maybe?