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I'm Sam, 39 from the UK (Sussex). I work full time as a manager for an insurance broker.

Physically, I'm 6'3", dark hair, with a salt n pepper beard.

Outside of the 9-5, I enjoy gaming (mostly Rocket League), watching F1/NBA/Football, playing card/board games or just chilling with the TV on in the background.

I like to drink socially, more of a pub rather than club guy, and enjoy shooting pool and bowling. I’m also 420 friendly, although I don't partake myself.

I am in a polyamourous relationship and it's something we’ve been actively participating in for around 7 months. (I should note, we are not looking for a unicorn, we date separately and there is no hierarchy).

I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for at this point. I guess I'm looking for connections/friendships and then seeing how things progress, whether that remains as friends, cuddle buddies, or something more.

If you’re interested in the “something more”, there’s a few more details below that might be of interest to you:

• Family is important to me, but I'm not interested in marriage or children personally (if you have children this isn't something that would put me off).
• I would prefer to connect with someone who is kink/sex positive and open-minded towards sexual and sensual exploration.
• To be completely transparent, I have struggled in the past (and a little of the present) with my mental health (I’m medicated and participating in therapy) - the only reason I bring this up is so if you’re reading this and you’ve struggled or are struggling, too, just know that your struggles do not make you worth any less to me.

If you've read this far, congratulations! Feel free to reach out to me via message or chat if you're interested. You can also leave me questions or comments in the space below.