Hi everyone - I'm looking for a person I can really connect with. A relationship where I match with someone very closely on things that matter to me. Someone to be weird with me. Where we can be ourselves and it doesn't matter if other people don't get that. To do this, we need to start as friends and see how that goes, but I am looking for people who are open to something long-term. I'm neither bored nor short of friends - I'm taking my time and looking for the right person. Maybe I'll find them, maybe I won't.

I'm pretty non-traditional and I think I want a pretty non-traditional relationship. I was recently diagnosed with ADHD and I'm in the process of still figuring that out - turns out it affects a lot. But I'm passionate about improving my mental health and building a life where I don't feel wrong all the time. It's going ok so far, but I have a ways to go. You can also be working on things, but it's important that someone I'm with is also working on their own happiness and growth.

I am progressive and value kindness and altruism. I'm pretty mellow, but also a bit spontaneous. My interests are relatively nerdy. I have a good (if slightly odd) sense of humor. I like to talk a lot and bounce around from topic to topic pretty easily. I want to hear about the things you love. We don't have to love the same things. However, I have a bit of a hard time with sports and anime - so if you're really into those things, it might be hard.

I'm fat and sexy. I have a high libido and my sexual connection with a partner is very important. I am very caring and giving and am interested in finding someone with that same energy, and am also interested in someone a bit adventurous. However, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN MAKING CONNECTIONS THAT ARE ONLY ABOUT SEX. DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF THIS IS WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR.

I am interested in a variety of physical features in people. I tend to be attracted to adorkable and a little shy. I like unique features rather than "conventionally attractive." Attraction is very case-by-case for me. I don't care about the laundry list of things people are "supposed" to be. I am interested in people of every gender and tend to prefer people who are a bit gender non-conformist. I am only interested in talking to people between the ages of 30-45.

I don't care if you use chat or messages, but I WILL NOT REPLY if you don't tell me at least one thing you like about my post and some basics about you. Your reply doesn't have to be long, or "impressive," just genuine and earnest.

I look forward to meeting you and thanks for taking the time to read my nonsense, I have a lot more where that came from :D

(Edit: I take my time replying to people so that I get a chance to get to know them. Please be patient with me.)