Me: 34, educated, accomplished, compassionate, secure, ambitious, athletic, handsome, neurodivergent, know what I want.
You: 21-35, ambitious, athletic, compassionate, know what you want.
I believe that real love is a collaborative commitment, where sustainability arises from two agreeable partners able to communicate their boundaries and needs, respectfully. I seek someone who shares in my definition of love, or eager to share theirs and generate some amazing memories while we get to know each other.
If you're still reading, here are some more details about myself: I'm very ambitious and dive deep into my passions and into life. I feel like quality of execution has a deep impact on the life we experience, and we only get 1 go at this, so my energy and focus is usually measured in what I choose to spend it in. Time is a commodity we can only spend, not save, after all. I do well for myself. Professionally, I have toggled into multiple career fields successfully. Academically, I am a computer engineer, and I have solved some rather specific problems that scale into multiple problem spaces, so I do not worry for my ability to find fruitful work. Recreationally, I believe the body is a sculpture, and thus I engage in a healthy and solid fitness program of my own design: running, hiking, powerlifting. Health is important so I have been investing into the kitchen recently, albeit I LOVE eating out so I can be passionate about food. Entertainment wise, I grew up gaming, have some of the typical nerd past times. I also snowboard, hike, enjoy travel as I work remotely. This past year I can say my spanish is very much usable while traveling through Mexico.
There is much more to share but please feel free to reach out, and we can go from there.
I believe in radical transparency so I will share much about myself early if you are so inclined to ask. Some may see that as a red-flag. I am not neuronormative. My rationale is that in practicing radical transparency I am enabling you to make more informed decisions about how you choose to interact with me. false-self personas are only as pragmatic as the context allows ie. working in a public facing job. in personal lives it serves little purpose, imo.
I have a pretty ambitious next few months but I would be willing to do LDR for the right person.
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