I have always dated, been attracted to and had female friends who are older than myself, i'm 38, not entirely sure why other than the fact that I have a slightly more mature outlook on life and seem to get on with people older than myself much better than people my own age or younger. When it comes to women I don't have a type as some of my friends seem to do, I have always found different women attractive for entirely different reasons, and something that I like in one person I don't always like in another, so any race/hair colour/size does not matter to me, not to sound like I am desperate because I am certainly not, I just take everyone as the come and get to know them as an individual. But I do have some things that I find attractive, powerful strong go getters, women who know exactly what they want and how to get it is top of my list, someone who has interests and likes to involve me in them and share them, however bizzare they may be, after all it's the little things that make us different and that's what I like. As clichè as it sounds someone who loves animals, I do, so if you have one in your life i'd like that a lot, after all, going for a walk in the park is one of my favourite things to do so throw a dog into that mix and i'm very happy, even though i've never actually owned a dog myself. Someone who takes care of themselves and takes pride in their appearance, I try to always dress well and look my best, there's no greater feeling than meeting you for lunch/dinner and to see you walk in looking great and full of confidence. Someone who likes to go out but who also loves nights in with a nice bottle of wine and likes to be totally pampered by me and have dinner cooked for them, I am a very good cook.

Now for the bit that I dread writing about on her but I did say I would be specific so I will be. Sexually I like someone who genuinely loves sex and doesn't see it as something they
should or have to do just because you are in a relationship. Someone who can be dominant or submissive, with a slight leaning to you being the more dominant one in the bedroom. Someone who is not afraid to experiment, I will try anything once to see if I will like it, someone who loves to flirt and have lots of foreplay, i adore giving oral and totally pleasing every inch of a womans body, I also love to rimm, I am a very big lover of lingerie and heels (who isn't) and love the idea of going shopping in an afternoon to buy lingerie and sex toys knowing that later we will get to use them, the anticipation of what is to come is a massive turn on. There is much more to that side of me but not that I really want to go into on my first ad on here!!!

Other than that I am a genuine, easy going, friendly, articulate person who has come to the stage in his life to find someone I get on with great in every sense of the word, someone I can share my interests with as well as theirs, get to know and just generally have a great time doing it. If you wold like to know more and chat a little then I would love to hear back from you...