You may be wondering, "what is a pathologist?" A pathologist is a diagnostic physician, like a radiologist, but instead of using x-rays, we use a microscope and laboratory tests to provide diagnoses and predict which treatments would benefit a patient.

Now that this technicality is out of the way, what can I offer beyond my credentials? Romance and details; these mean I will celebrate your birthdays, anniversaries, and other significant occasions, with outings, memorable gifts, and flowers, especially roses (maybe tulips). I know "touch" is not everyone’s lOvE laNguAgE, but I am a hugger (think big teddy bear), cuddler, and masseuse. For fun, we'll go on drives, hikes, dinner, bowling, baseball games, the mall for mani-/pedicures or shopping, traveling, hanging out with family/friends, and dancing (i.e., salsa, merengue, bachata, cha-cha-cha, etc). I do have an Xbox, albeit I am not much of a “gamer”, if that's your bag. Of note, they say good judgement is based on bad experience and Lord knows I have tons of bad experience. Thus, I emotionally polished, like a Swarovski crystal, and will create little drama, albeit I do get hangry sometimes. I know how to cook, clean, upkeep a home, including handyman work and gardening, and work cars, so I can be a handy manly man for you. Lastly, I like making folks laugh and have a belly laugh myself.

Important details of my life you should probably know include that I may display signs and symptoms of workaholism (i.e., expectedly typical physician). I am also divorced and have a young daughter that I have limited physical custody of.

What am I looking for you ask? Plainly stated, I am looking to find the right kind of love, which relies so much on the dynamics of "chemistry", and you just have to see if it is there. I recognize that Reddit predisposes to long distance relationships, but the goal would be to come together at some point, preferably sooner, rather than later. Also, knowing there are more young ladies out there, I have read the literature on age-gap relationships and in my estimation, the jury is still out. Nevertheless, a big age difference may pose challenges down the road, so hedge your bets accordingly. Extra brownie points if you work in healthcare, as I feel talking shop may help break the ice, but this is by no means a prerequisite.

Drop me a line and tell me what you are all about and where you live. I included a photo of myself for triaging purposes and you may feel free to share one of yourself. Look forward to chatting and starting something new.