We are a mid 30s couple about to hit our one year anniversary since the last time we had PIV.

My wife has sex with other men at least a few times a month. She mostly plays on her own, though on occasion I do get to watch. She really enjoys it. I love seeing her happy.

Since we embraced PFM, she has controlled when and how I get to cum -- including chastity. I am happy to report that I have not broken her trust one time. I usually get to cum once or twice a month. Generally, I will be allowed to masturbate in the bathroom after I give her an orgasm or two.

We have also talked about separate bedrooms, but it is not very realistic since we have kids. She does limit when I can see her naked to very infrequent situations.

Does anybody have any suggestions for our PFM anniversary? We planned a three day trip to a cabin up in the mountains at the end of February. Looking for any and all suggestions!