I know yall get this question all the time. But my partner and me have been off and on for about three years and she’s very vanilla and don’t really care to try anything new or has any kind of kinks she just wants normal vanilla sex maybe once a month we don’t really date other people, but we’re free to. But she knows all about my kinks and what I like and knows I wanna be pussy free and locked in Chastity but she really don’t care for the idea even after our long multiple talks about the things that I would like, but it’s pretty much come down to either I give up all my sexual fantasies and wants and needs to stay with her or we just remain friends and I find somebody else. I’ve talked to my therapist, but I’m still stuck on what to do. Do you have any advice on your experiences or anything like that that you could give me just as an insight on different ways to think about this?

Because I love her and I do want to be with her, but it’s the same time my sexual side and the things that I like and want are a big part of me and my lifestyle because I thought about getting a chemical castration so I could kill and stop all the urges and fantasies I don’t know if that’s a good idea or not.