Not sure of the title or if this is the best place but just needed a place to share.

Just walked in on the wife who was using a vibrator in bed.

First i’ve told i have no issues with this and encourage her to self explore.

Second it’s been 5 months since we’ve last had sex (i don’t post on dead bedroom subs cuz they’re black and white and judgmental af)

After her initial suprise/diversion i assured her it was okay and i didn’t mind. I asked if she needed her alone time and she said no. i asked if i could watch/help she said yes.

We just finished a 30 minute session where she orgasmed probably 5 times (hot af!!)

Throughout i told her i wanted her to feel pleasure and i don’t have to be the one to provide it (she seemed to pick up on this and get more into it)

So context aside the reason i posted here is because i’ve expressed interest in cuckolding before and she will playfully tease me about this.

The whole time i kept thinking how hot it would be if i was watching someone else do this to her. Also i entered her briefly (at her request) and after a few strokes i think we both realized it wasn’t what either of us wanted (pussy free marriage?) related we both are openly bi and discussed opening our marriage for same sex and opposite sex exploration.

I guess i’m wondering what does tomorrow coffee talk sound like lol? she’s going on a work trip next week so do i reassure her she has a ‘hall pass’? do i ask if she prefer i don’t attempt sex anymore just help or let her be? do i ask if she wants to open our marriage? do we act like that didn’t happen after 5 months of basically nothing sexual between us?

I know the answer is probably just ask what her thoughts about tonight were and go from there but interested to hear others cross kinks, issues, struggles and navigating this gray area!