I've noticed this trend around here: men who are bitter about not getting women also seem to have nothing but bad things to say about them. They assums men who have sex easily dont either, and just pump and dump. Me who are successful in getting laid here often agree, and report losing interest or having nothing in common after achieving "post-nut clarity."

The number one thing that needs to change about modern dating isn't women's behavior, but men's.

Men need to stop pursuing/having sex with women they don't personally like. I dont mean romantically, just like as a human being. Your FWB should be your real friend. Your one night stand should be friend material. Your girlfriend should be best friend material. Even your tinder match should be someone you can actually see yourself hanging out with fully clothed.

I firmly believe this would solve most of the major complaints in modern dating. imagine the consequences:

Women would experience significantly less male interest, helping to rebalance that dating game. Dating would be much easier for most men.

Women's general impression of men would dramatically improve, along with their experiences. Dating would be much easier for most men.

Men who believe women overestimate their own value would see a dramatic decrease in that. Dating would be much easier for most men.

Women would have to put more effort into demonstrating their value and matching men's energy. Dating would be much easier for most men.

Etc.

So why arent the various movements the spring up among men online focused on this, instead of different colored pills and MGTOW?

EDIT: a lot of you seem to think I'm a woman, so let me explain my standpoint. I am male (35), polyamorous and, after blooming late, now very successful with women. My sex life is a fantasy, yet I believe (with good reason) that I maintain a great reputation among women in my social world, even when I sleep with many of their friends in short succession. The reason for this, I believe, is because I already live by my recommendation above: I never sleep with anyone I wouldn't be friends with. Without that, no matter what my other advantages are, I would be the local "creep," have to put up with a lot of drama, and many of the women I desire most would know better than to trust a word I say.