I know all the women are going to instantly downvote this initially but I urge you to hold off on the down vote and hear me out.

So many guys make the very common mistake of pedestalizing women. Believing they're pussies are full of flowers fruits and rainbows. Believing and acting as if they can't do anything wrong. And as per usual because they're human they do things that are flawed because we are all flawed and you become disappointed and that leads to toxic bullshit.

Now the guy you see as an asshole isn't an asshole at all. He knows she ain't shit. You look at her and ignore her flaws. You know how many women deal with men who pedestalize them get in their pants? It's boring. You let them get away with any and everything because you refuse to deal with their flaws. It's not that you don't see their flaws you're too chicken shit in jeopardizing a potential relationship with them deal with their flaws. The so called asshole deals with their flaws right then and there. And that's excites women.

That's why women say they like bad boys because they're exciting. It's not necessarily because they do bad things it's because guy who do bad things don't pedestalize women and check them on their bullshit. But you can be a regular guy that checks women on their bullshit too. You just have to have the balls to do it. Some women get away with it for so long when you they don't know how to react when someone does do so.

So fellas. The next time you start fancying a woman, try to acknowledge her flaws don't focus on it. But understand what her flaws are and what those flaws mean to you and address them applicable.

The reason why some good looking women stay with men that talk down to them all the time is because nobody else is doing it. They seek self deprecation even though they know they're good looking is because they know they don't deserve all this praise and admiration they're getting from random people. They either don't do shit or they know they have a bad attitude. They know about scars and personality flaws that other people get checked for but they get away with and you got a guy who basically gives her that self deprecation she's been wanting to bring her back down to earth because everyone gasses her head up.

And let's talk about it, even less than good looking women are starting to get big headed. Don't be afraid to check them too. Nobody wants to talk bad about people in their face or jeopardize pussy they ain't got but damn it don't let a check with fucked up teeth and a flatass act out of pocket and not check her because you think you got a shot at the pussy. That's not going to get you the pussy.

Now to clarify for the simple minded. I'm not advocating for verbal or physical abuse. I'm advocating for treating women like humans. Every human needs to be checked. Every human needs to be set straight, have their flaws analyzed and expose so we can grow. Challenge is what make us human and depriving women of challenge hoping for a chance of getting some pussy ain't working and is destroying the dating game.