A lot of men assume that women have it easy when it comes to dating (or stuff like the ability to make an OnlyFans and make easy money). But I think this is insular and dogmatic. While this might be somewhat true on average (women have an easier time dating than men overall), it ignores women that aren't conventionally attractive. It seems like a lot of men don't even count conventionally unattractive women as women sometimes (or ever consider them and their experiences).

For example, I have a friend (she is really nice and has a great personality) who was often the victim of boys' bullying in school. They would pretend to have a crush on her as a cruel joke and constantly make fun of her, calling her ugly and fat. She also was on Tinder before, and men were mean to her on there. One guy said that he was "concerned about her weight" out of nowhere. (Why would you even match with someone just to be rude to them? I don't understand it.)

So it's not like dating is super easy for all women and they never get rejected (even conventionally attractive women get rejected sometimes). Not to mention that getting used for sex (vs. just getting rejected immediately) isn't really better for most women, even if they aren't explicitly rejected.