Every once in awhile I see the discussion of men having to pay child support on kids that are not theirs and I just feel like that's the one thing that women would agree with us on. And if I use the larger that women use it makes even more sense for example:

The kids suffers argument: The kid is going to suffer regardless. Women also have started divorce proceedings when the husband is caught cheating. This also makes the kids suffer If that's the case you should be equally upset with a mother that goes for sole custody as much as a presumed father who doesn't want to financially take care of a kid that's not his genetically

You signed the paper agree that you were the father argument: The mother also signed a document saying that they were committed to each other and also made an agreement to be exclusive. The mother violated a document first.

The kid needs financial support argument: just make it legal to go after the actual father for child support.

You should have asked for a DNA test before signing argument: women should support getting a DNA test before signing documents. And also in the social stigma of it honestly.

When someone does something bad people suffer in general. It is not that person's job to help you fix the problems you made. Considering a big hot button issue is forced parenthood for rape victims why would women even nearly support any law that would make anybody feel anything close to it.

Put it this way of a lesbian couple are together And they make the choice to do IVF using the sperm of the other person's brother. Let's assume they're both white. Now 9 months later that baby comes out. But 7 months later they notice that the skin of the baby is getting darker. The non-burthing mother starts getting concerns and takes a DNA test and finds out that there's no genetic match. She confronts the birthing mother and finds out that she cheated. Even though she signed the birth certificate or adoption papers it's just not morally right.