Ive heard of attractive, mildly autistic men getting approached a bunch in real life and always getting ghosted after a date is set up. Its like the female brain is intricately designed to filter out people who arent neurotypical. If you are a neurotypical, then when you first introduce yourself to a woman, you are legit just following a script that the neurotypical brain involuntarily and naturally guides you through in order to allow you to demonstrate to her your good neurotype genetics. She is not being attracted to your "personality", no, all this first interaction is showing is your neurotypicality. If you fail this test you will undoubtedly lose the woman - unless she "lovebombs" you and pretends to be interested in you just to use you for sex if you are attractive enough. If you are unattractive mildly autistic then good luck lol.
This notion that it is a mildly autistic person's fault for not fitting social norms or reading cues and replicating socially normative behaviour is extremely stupid. It is not the fault of a mildly autistic person that their brain is missing the neural pathways to effortlessly socially integrate. Things like learning to read body language, showing eye contact, how and waht to say, when to escalate and start physical touch, etc. This stuff isnt supposed to be manual or require conscious based effort and problem solving its supposed to be natural like in the neurotypical mind.
So if you are mildly autistic and unattractive, dont blame yourself. And certainly dont compare yourself to neurotypical standards. You didnt ask for this genetic nightmare. You are doing ok with the cards you were dealt.