Hey, so my partner is out of town between 11.04. and 21.04. and I thought that was a great opportunity to take in a slave or toy for that period (or any sub period). We're open poly, so this isn't cheating. I won't be on vacation, but I do work from home, so there'll be plenty of opportunity for me to use you, even while I work. I know this is a really short notice, so I'm not expecting many applicants, but you never know.

About myself:

• 28
• NB (AMAB)
• Masc looking with beard
• Open poly
• Dom with 10 years of experience
• Vers
• Chubby
• Living in Karlsruhe

Outside of kink I work as a DevOps Engineer and play video games. I enjoy RPGs, racing games, survival games. Not a huge fan of shooters, but they're great fun with friends. I'm also very much into computers and programming, so if I'm not playing I often spend my free time tinkering with some software. I do enjoy spending quality time at home - alone or with my partner. Despite this I do enjoy a good round of bowling or laser tag.

Kinks:

Before I dive into a list, let me just say that I'm very open to practically any kink. So if something isn't mentioned, just ask. Also I'll restrict myself to my main kinks, else this list will be very long.

• Sadism - anything that inflicts pain on my partner. Even better if they openly enjoy it
• Receiving anal play - toys, penetration, rimming, etc
• Giving forced orgasms
• Receiving body worship - touching, licking, kissing, toys, ...
• PetPlay
• Bondage - I do have a bondage cross/St. Andrew's cross in my bedroom
• Humiliation/Degradation
• Uglification
• Receiving (acts of) service
• Watersports
• Receiving feminization - However as a positive thing only and only when I'm feeling feminine

Penetrative sex (where I do the penetration) is something I enjoy, but can be very difficult, depending on my state of mind. If it works out, it works out and if it doesn't, it doesn't. So if this is something you need, look elsewhere. Also my sex drive in general has been all over the place. However, most things I enjoy aren't purely sexual to me, so there's still plenty of fun to be had, even if it were to be completely dead during your stay.

Final word on my kinks are that none of these are required. As long as there's something on that list you're into that's fine.

Limits:

• Brats - I don't care if you can be bratty, as long as you can guarantee me that you won't be bratty with me.
• Bad communicators - both online and IRL. If you can't express how you're feeling, what you want or need, then this is a hard deal breaker for me
• Scat
• Diapers (IRL) - Online they can be fun, but IRL I want nothing to do with them
• Being penetrated by a (real) penis - I do like being penetrated, but it needs to be a toy. For fucking a strap-on is a must (which I do have)

About yourself:

I'm not very picky and enjoy a wide variety of body types. From underweight to overweight, every body has its appeal. They only real requirement I have is that you have at most moderate body hair. I also have a slight preference for feminine appearances. Gender is entirely irrelevant to me, I care only for the person - both character and body.

Kink wise, you should have a submissive side, that you can keep for the duration of the stay. Service submission is a huge plus, especially if it extends beyond pure sexual submission. I'll repeat it here, brattiness is nothing I'm willing to deal with. Some of your kinks should align with the ones I mentioned. Experience isn't required, but you should be familiar with BDSM basics, like RACK, SSC, safewords, aftercare, terminology, etc. Everything else can be discussed.

Final notes:

I'm happy to verify and meet in person before anything happens.
The power difference must not be kept up all the time, I'm happy to meet at eye level.
Your limits will be strictly followed.
You can stay at my place. I can offer my bed, a guest bed or a doggy bed.
No exchange of money is expected, though I'm willing to split travel costs.

Feel free to reach out to me if something isn't clear, or if you're unsure if you're a good fit for me, I like chatting with people and most things mentioned here aren't set in stone.
Naturally stuff like exact locations, times and dates, limits, safewords, aftercare requirements will be discussed in private before any play will start.