There was a posting here about 6 months back. (I'm new here and reading your backlog) and I'm very surprised no one caught the theme.

http://www.reddit.com/r/PunchingMorpheus/comments/2kr1do/i_was_dead_before_the_red_pill_men_in_your_life/

It was that one by the way.

None of what OP was discussing was actually about sex. It is blatantly about power. His lack of power as a child and his toolbox for power now. Feeling power. Also of course, delighting in revenge.

I'm assuming OP is American, sounds like it from social cues.

It seems very common, and it seems to be a central theme in modern American life. The central American Doctrine of Life is power, nothing else. Kids like OP, like myself, like many here I'd guess were on the losing end of the power rubric, and speaking for myself, found power games to be a very alien mode of thinking. The experience is exactly as OP described. It is inescapable and warps the mind. Some individuals recover "better" than others.

You should also notice that the only compassion contained in OPs post was towards ....um... let's say "fellow victims." He seems quite cognizant of his complete lack of compassion and empathy in dealing with women, in leading his daily life. He even seems to demonstrate bewilderment by it, but still is unable to feel compassion as of yet. It seems another common theme of the Modern American.

TL;DR: Really think that conversation could have been more .... enlightening for all of us if we'd not chased down the obvious yet immaterial point that "manipulating people is bad, m'kay."