Hello everyone.

For a few years now I've been able to orgasm using my njoy wand but never mastered it with a dildo.

I find with the njoy it builds up pretty quickly and the climax feels great, but the overall experience of using a dildo is more pleasurable, I just can't reach orgasm with one.

I've got various toys but the one that feels best is a 8inch dildo that got a soft coating but is rigid (It's actually a vibrator but I prefer to use it without). I've tried various angles from directly hitting my prostate to just fucking myself deep, I've tried both while being completely relaxed and also contracting my PC muscles. All methods feel good, but I don't know which is the most effective method. Any advice would be appreciated.