Hey all,

I've been having a lot of fun recently with a glass toy but I need a little advice.

I have a glass toy, about 7.5", comfortable girth, slight curve, big, smooth, bulbous tip, spirals down the shaft. I love the hardness and the size is amazing, really fills me up but isn't too hard to take.

Anyways, I can find my p-spot easily enough w/ fingers or my glass friend. I usually get a rock hard erection and plenty of precum while playing, totally satisfying and I enjoy it a lot.

My two problems are, I'm kind of tight so I can only really get her in there when I'm kneeling, legs slightly spread, and that's uncomfortable for long sessions which I need to relax enough to have the kind of cum-draining p-spot orgasms I NEED. I'm wondering if anyone can suggest other positions that would loosen me up but be more comfortable for long sessions.

Secondly, if I'm giving myself deep penetration to slowly stroke the tip over my p-spot, I sometimes feel pressure on (I think) my bladder and have "shot" a tiny bit of (I think) pee as if it was cum before. Just wondering if there's anything I could do about this aside from making sure to pee before starting, as I like to feel well hydrated while exploring my ass and often drink water before and during play.

Also wondering what other communities on reddit might be able to help me out with these questions and prostate pleasure in general.