Have had a few experiences now with my aneros toys. I have both the helix syn trident and the program jnr, the latter seeming to do the trick more for me. Up until last night, I was certain that I had an HFDO but I was very mistaken.

A couple of days using Mindgasm to gain control over the muscles in my source and I decided to do things a little differently. I had some strong indica weed and lay down relaxing in bed next to my wife. With no toys inserted, I began contracting my base and centre and trying to find the sweet spot. What followed was the following:

1. Weakening of the muscles resulting in a gradual release of tension
2. Body shakes and quivers, involuntary contractions of so many muscles.
3. Waves of pleasure which were increasing each time, but not going over the edge
4. My mind was trying really hard to hold the contractions at the optimal zone but I was too focused on achieving a PO that I think I was hindering progress
5. The magic begins, my wife touched my stomach. The warmth of her hand felt like nothing I’ve ever felt before, it wasn’t a hand on a stomach, rather it was just bliss
6. I started to focus my attention onto her whilst trying to subconsciously maintain contractions
7. A wave of pleasure suddenly took over, my brain no longer had any control over my body
8. I began convulsing and a warmth enveloped me and a sensation I can only describe as pure ecstasy washed over me.
9. I could not control my moans, my legs or my source
10. The strongest orgasm I’ve ever had in my life began and lasted about 30 seconds.
11. Every time my wife would touch me absolutely anywhere, it would reset and I’d have another O. I think I had about 6 or 7 orgasms like this. It was like she unlocked the “stay relaxed and stop focusing on the O, just let it happen” effect. My penis was hard but it was not a wet orgasm by any stretch of the imagination. I was scared to have another moment of non-control. The feeling was so intense it was almost frightening to experience that again.
12. My wife suggested I insert the progasm. Reluctantly in fear I complied.
13. We ended up engaging in the best sex of our lives and I had a regular penal orgasm and came like a truck, like never before.
14. I took the aneros out and lay in bliss near my wife who decided to touch me again. In response I said “please don’t, I can’t take anymore of this” to which she smiled and began touching me. Reset and repeat all over again until I wore my body out and finally fell asleep.

I’m still in shock. I’ve never had a feeling so trance like and pleasurable ever before. I’m scared I may never have it again. But if I don’t, I can die happy knowing I got to experience this at least once before I passed.

I don’t have any tips or techniques, I just had to share. Thank you reddit for unlocking the best experience ever.