I had a really big discovery about my journey with prostate play last night and I can relate pleasure I get now with toys that I was able to simulate earlier in life.

“The stretch” This one is a big one, pun intended, that gives me pleasure. I love to feel a big end, or head, of a toy stretching my asshole. This is very comparable for me to taking a big poop. The pressure of pushing and feeling that stretch. This was a lot of my teen years, jerking off on the toilet, as I took a big poop. This jerking off as I poop has lasted until most recently.

“Prostate pressure” I actually started this much earlier in my life then I ever remember jerking off. I would actually hold in my poop as a kid, even sometimes later in my teen years. I never did it when I had a GF so I pretty much stopped this when I met my wife. That was 26 years ago. I could use the pressure on my prostate as I laid on my side. I would squeeze my legs together, pressure from my thighs to my groin. Sometimes even with a pillow between my legs. I can now do this with a butt plug in. If you read my story about having my first prostate orgasm in front of my wife last week, this is what I was doing when laying with her. I’ve tried to simulate this without a butt plug in since then and haven’t been successful.

I do this type of play as I have a plug in. I wear them to work and squeeze my muscles in my ass, clinching my butt, causing me pleasure. This easily keeps me dripping precum.

I also went to glass and metal toys, which really made a difference for me. I can wear them longer without the “pain” of silicone toys and lube seeming to dry out faster with silicone toys. I can easily use the bathroom and insert my plug at work.

The other issue I had with silicone toys was having to take them out after extended wear. That shit usually hurt. I haven’t had that problem at all with any of my glass plugs after extended, 8 to 12 hours or more.

And don’t even get me started on cleanliness. Glass has so many options to clean them that wouldn’t work for silicone. I know my chances of my wife ever being involved with this journey is going to require CLEAN. My current fantasy is for my wife to use the toy on her first before handing it to me to use on myself. The glass would be wet and warm as she hands it me. Yes, the glass toys absorb heat and cold.

I guess I’ve had a lot of people ask me for tips but I think that’s hard to do without knowing what gives you pleasure.