Hi everyone,

Im pretty emotional so this might just sound like a ramble. I just found out that my dad has prostate cancer today. My dad and I love each other very much but my dad is also very closed off and doesn’t open up about emotional or sensitive topics. He’s 66 years old and I was under the impression he was in good health. Sadly I did not hear this new from him but from my mom today and he had been diagnosed a few months ago and has already gone through some radiation. I don’t know much more. Im worried for my dad and I’m very sad (though not offended) that my dad didn’t tell me about this because I know this is a sensitive topic. I feel sad because I don’t know how he is feeling and I’d love to be able to support him and be there for him in this new challenging phase of his life. I don’t want to impose on his personal life but I’m also his daughter and think as a family we should handle big things like this together. Or that I should be in the loop. A little about me: I’m a 31 year old cis woman, queer, I’ve been going to therapy for about 5 years and crave a deeper connection with my dad. I’ve craved a deeper connection with him for a long time. I was thinking I could write my dad a letter, opening up to him and letting him know that I’m here for him and that if he wants support I’m here and love him. I imagine other people might have similar experiences and just seeking anything to relate to and hear from others. Thank you in advance and I wish everyone on this page strength and love during their journey. <3