My Fiance is at a 9 month program. He is in a dorm style living facility. There are only two phones available for inmates to use which is a call list line. He calls his mom first( which I tell him to do before me) and there is a usually a long line of ppl. He will usually tell that he will call me at a certain time or call me later and never will.

I get frustrated easily when that happens because I don't like being told something only for it to not happen. I know he has no control over the situation or anything there, which is why I'm gonna tell him to stop calling me and focus primarily on getting out the program, call his mom, and write letters.

I want to communicate how I feel and be transparent with him, because I don't like sugarcoating anything to him.

I throws me off when he tells me he will contact me and it doesn't happen.