I'm watching S06E06 and Caleb is rightfully upset with Hannah's lack of communication, and distant behaviour. What confuses me is Ashley Marin implies to Caleb that he should have impactful approach to get through to Hannah because she likes to keep people guessing? Why would she give this piece of advice and what did the example of "After her dad and I split, Hannah moved into my bedroom and we would watch movies late at night. She would laugh at the sad parts and she would sob at the jokes." mean? I sure as hell didn't understand where she was going with the freezer incident and how Hannah was thrilled to be yelled at?

Some clarification would be helpful. I don't get why they both don't respect Hannah's boundaries. She was kidnapped and is still dealing with a potential threat. Let the girl wil'out.