I’m hooking up with a girl in a few days so I’m really nervous to make sure I give her a good time lol. I’ve hooked up twice before with other girls and both were extremely quick i.e. less than 15 seconds. It was super humiliating and has put me off trying to hook up again. I bought EMLA cream today and tried it on around the frenulum and corona. After 30 minutes it felt really numb and weird. I tried jacking off and came after about 3 minutes with a fair deal of force and death grip required. To be fair it’s a lot longer than I would normally last (30 seconds maybe) but I was still a bit discouraged that I even came. Are my expectations too high or am I in trouble? Has anyone with as severe PE as me had success with EMLA cream?