Success! When I first bought my fleshlight type sex toy in September, I think I barely lasted 2 minutes playing with it.

This morning, I just spent 25 minutes edging and did not ejaculate. I did not use any medication or delay products. I stopped because I was getting tired and losing erection quality.

I used it in three positions: standing up (simulating doggy style), lying on my back (simulating cowgirl) and kneeling on my bed (simulating missionary and doggy style).

Cowgirl and doggy style are my most sensitive positions so spent a lot of time in those positions and was very happy to not nut. Around the 15 minutes mark, my glans even started to feel a bit numb.

The speed of which I use the fleshlight is about one stroke per second and when lying on my back I sometimes speed it up with fast shallow strokes. This is to simulate my wife riding me on top where she sometimes rides quite fast.

This is a major victory for a guy who once came upon first penetration. I am super pumped and happy about this!

I attribute this to pelvic floor exercises (not just Kegels), edging (playing with flesh light and stopping before ejaculation, then continuing), deep breathing, not allowing myself to get too mentally aroused.