Have you ever considered using kink to train you to be a better version of you? Would you let a Dom inside of you, mentally, so they could try to help you grow inside? Do you want the type of closeness that can only exist in a Dom and sub dynamic?

It’s a must for me but it sure isn’t easy to find or build. It’s something I consider, I dream of, I desire deep inside. I want to build something unique and special with the right sub. I’m not here just to have sex.

There is a certain poetic tone to it that can only exist in a dynamic built on communication, respect and trust.

I’m into the mental aspects of BDSM, the power exchange, and trust that comes with it. Humiliation, Degredation, objectification, mentorship and praise are all drives for me. I’m also a bit of a sadist, nothing too extreme, but spanking, slapping, etc as punishment. Are they drives for you? Are they part of what your heart desires? Do you like the exchange? Are you service oriented? Do you want to create the give and take poetic dance of D/s?

Did I make you feel warm inside?

I’d love to find someone who want to lean in and let their Dom help them become a better version of themselves through kink. I’m not a therapist or a psychologist, they are just interests of mine. I’ve also found the idea of using kink to help push someone into being the person they want to be, fascinating and hot. Have you ever considered it? Is it something that could help you?

Here is how we work, my wife (who is an amazing woman) is open minded, somewhat, bi-curious and leans towards the sub side is open to me having a regular, service oriented sub. We’re open to someone joining our household, or simply be here regularly.

It’s a unique situation I don’t expect it to be easy to find. It’s not low hanging fruit and easy to grab. So, when it happens, it will be special in a romantic type of way only found in BDSM. It isn’t about a traditional romantic relationship but rather something different there aren’t any public examples of.

Kinks are plentiful and run deep but not as important as the connection.

If you got a warm feeling in your body right now…then perhaps it’s a sign to say hello.