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Is it a porn addiction if you’re just watching porn and not masturbating?
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Genuine question here

My porn use is a direct result of a dead bedroom with no sex for 4 years (married for 9)

I use porn and get myself off on it daily - usually after rejection and it’s my way of dealing with my anger at the lack of sex, rejection, sexual frustration etc

The thought of PIED scares me but I need a sexual outlet

I could do hobbies, exercise, work etc and that’s all fine for my stress - but the sexual frustration remains - I live with my wife, am in bed with her every night, and am attracted to her.

So I wonder - if I watch porn and simply watch to get some visual stimulation …. with absolutely no masturbation at all …. and then just very quickly get myself off by very quickly thrusting into a fleshlight till I release (which will be super quick to happen), is that any better than using my hand to jerk off continuously whilst watching?

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