M40 married 9y - no sex last 4 years. Can’t cope. So use porn daily. Any men in similar situation? H...

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M40 married 9y - no sex last 4 years. Can’t cope. So use porn daily. Any men in similar situation? How do you cope? Looking for some support/to vent etc

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need_it__1985 is a male

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No sex after 2nd child 4 years ago.

Turn to porn at night after wife sleeps and help myself out for a few hours. I get quite aggressive on myself and even stick my junk up against the screen. My sexual frustrations are beyond words.

Afterwards I’m disgusted in myself. If I have sex it would be loving - but with porn I’m only interested in my needs and I envision very rough sex. I guess cause the extreme lack of sex has made me very aggressive and I bottle it up.

I feel awful right after I’m done. To the point I hate myself.

But I can’t stop this cycle. And part of me doesn’t want to.

Any other men experiencing this? Looking for people to talk to and hopefully have some support, as I can’t talk about this to anyone.

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