My bf has a *orn addiction for several years he told me that few months into our relationship. He tells me he wish he would be addicted to it but at the same time he doesn’t see it as a problem. Well we discussed that he can pursue this on X (twitter) but the other socials are a no go since my friends and family including me follow him and that it would be embarrassing if they could see that , he agreed and said that he doesn’t want to be looked at like that. After some fights stuff like that always pops up in his following I already got spoken to by his friends and my family in which I honestly don’t defend him because it embarrassing and he just laughs it of while he takes it down again. He come up to me and thanks me for wanting him to be a better person and how his looked at but at the same time he probably doesn’t gaf at all. Some moths went by and I found out he was exchanging some d pic over snapchat to some other men and following naked women. My response was simple I posted a bikini picture of me in which it didn’t take long to react saying as gf I’m not supposed to show everyone else my body, that’s when I asked him to explain his snap he admitted that he’s addicted to stuff like that and would seek therapy but he’s not. At this point I don’t understand how he can gaslight himself that much in life. He never speaks out and is honest unless I ask him out. It’s disappointing to see that he can’t even be honest with himself and keeps repeating this sht over and over again. I need some support on what I can do for me because my help is clearly not getting accepted from me.