I have only recently decided that I want to become polygamous. I love my wife and have deeply but we have reached a point where there are things I want and need in my life that she cannot provide. I will not push her or force her into this and we have only joked about it in the past. I very much want to explain this in a way that makes it clear that my desire for s second wife isn't because I don't love her and it isn't some sexually depraved fantasy.

Update: I have had several conversations with my wife about polygamy. And the fact that I want a second wife. She has Begun to open up about it and has finally admitted the real reason why she is so set against it. It's not that she has a problem with it. It's that she was afraid that I would not love her as much anymore. Or that I would love the new woman more. She is still not on board, but she is no longer hostile to the idea. Is especially after 2 or 3 days of desperately needed another competent adult in the house to help take care of our home.

I also would like to point out that a chair with 3 legs is more stable. We never should have allowed a liberty to become so tired.