My boyfriend and I haven’t been having much sex since moving in together. I jokingly brought it up today and said it’s on him because he hardly ever initiates. He responded that it’s on both of us and I need to initiate too. The issue is that I do, like multiple times a week by passionately kissing him hoping for it to turn into something more.

It was then that I realized why this might not be effective. I have an abnormally small space between my upper lip and my nose. When I makeout with my boyfriend my nostrils are usually blocked so I have to pull away every so often to breathe. After talking about it we came to the conclusion that when I pull away he takes it as me not being interested in going further when in reality I’m just suffocating. Glad we were able to figure that out lol