single for the first time in my life and I'm trying to meet more people who are chill and funny and see what's out there. Must be safe and have a good head over your shoulders and to an extent your shit together (although I understand people hit bumps in the road- I just don't want to get into a dumb situation that would put us in the way of getting in trouble) I don't want a relationship but just someone to get some of my built up kink (including group play) out with as well as just getting some some girlfriends or any friends doesn't matter I just want someone to hang out with as well but no possessiveness. Into light BDSM and getting my clothes torn off as well as feeling safe so we have to have a connection first and establish some trust before I get into a a secluded area with you.

Other than that if you like to go to consignment shops, do nails or your hair, paddle board, hang out the beach, go to the flea market, to the windows or to the walls, to the bars I wanna crawl, or just see live music from Indy to ska to rap hmu. I'm your girl! Def need some friends who have a morbid or dark sense of humor and is ok w someone who can be aloof at times but understands that's because I'm in my own world so don't take that personally. I'm just a Bay Area Native trying to figure things out and can you use some human connection and appreciates mindfulness reliability and open communication.

I have pictures I'm going to post on my profile page if you want to see what I look like I would like a video chat just briefly if you want to hang out ✌🏼