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title says it all. i’m 31, and only slept with one person (a long term boyfriend, now ex). been single for 9 years and after healing a lot of my trauma and body issues, i think im ready to gain some experience because at this point im happy being single/not tied down to anyone.
any tips or tricks or general advice? i know as a plus size person, having a ‘hoe era’ can be a little different then for someone straight sized.
I’m 24 and have only had one partner (my current bf).
I may get downvoted but the truth is it’s never worth it and you are probably doing it out of low self esteem, need for male validation, boredom, or all the above. I have a plus sized friend that chose hookup culture over self discovery and therapy and now she is heartbroken with an even lower self esteem. All the light from her eyes is gone.
Dont let hookup culture trick you into thinking that it’s empowering. It’s empowering and great for the man but it only gives the woman subpar sex, STDs, and pregnancy scares. You are the one losing in this situation. He will get off and can easily vanish if you were to fall pregnant. You can’t. I’ve seen this happen so many times it’s so sad.
Having sex with men is a guaranteed way to ruin your life in a way. Their sexuality is worth little to nothing for a reason. It’s only worth it in a long term relationship headed towards marriage.
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