I've been getting into running again after 8 years, and as a side effect of that I've been losing weight. I don't have a weight loss goal, but I've lost 30lbs since June and am losing 1-2lbs per week right now. I was wearing a size 20 in June and am snuggly back in my size 16 now. I feel freaking incredible & conconfident at this size, but I'm expecting to keep losing weight for a while.

I've never let my size stop me from having relationships. In fact, I've had real success with finding people who like me, even at my all time heaviest weight. Now I'm single for the first time in a very long time and I'm in this weird place where I feel kind of insecure about losing weight. Being a full figured woman has become a beloved part of my identity, and I want someone who likes me the way I am. I'm paranoid that losing weight is only going to attract shallow people. Is it silly to feel like I wouldn't trust someone who was only interested in me after losing weight and not before?