UPDATE:

Hey guys, I’m so overwhelmed by all the amazing people giving me advice on here. I didn’t expect that at all. I really appriciate every comment and I’ve read every single one! They’ve all helped a lot, but so many came in at once, I didn’t know who to answer. All the ideas and confidence I’ve gotten from all these comments are amazing. Thank you so much 🩷 Can’t wait to try them all out lol

I didn’t really know where else to ask this, but it seems like the right place. Also bear with me if I made mistakes, it’s my first time ever posting on Reddit😅

So I’ve been seeing this guy for about 4 months and the sex is absolutely great. He does everything to make sure I’m satisfied and comfortable. He’s all around really great. Problem is he wants me to ride him. I really want to do it, but there’s obviously some things stopping me. First thing is I’m afraid I’m too heavy and I’m afraid it’s gonna hurt him when I do it. Second thing is… he’s not like small dick size wise, he’s pretty avarage I would say, but since I’m not small size wise, I find it a bit hard. Like I obviously have a little bit more ass and fat around that area, that his dick slips out, so I’m kinda afraid of lifting up too much. He’s also a little bit chubby, so I also find it hard to position my legs around him, so it’s comfortable for me to do it. Do any of you have any advice?