Okay, so I went out with a guy and he was all over me (which was nice) and we were making out and stuff. Everything went great.

Then he started talking about how he has a busy life and can’t compromise with me. I said it was cool because I wasn’t looking for commitment anyway. Then he said “yeah, I can’t tie myself to one person” and I said “that’s okay, I don’t want you to” then he kept insisting in this rhetoric while I was reassuring him I didn’t want a relationship either. Until he finally said “I like to fuck around you know… too many tits to know. Like yours, I love your tits, they are so full, kinda saggy, but I love your saggy tits”.

It felt so… backhanded? I don’t understand what he meant by that. I replied to him “Oh, trust me, I know they are great saggy tits” and laugh it off.

Then I went back home. A couple days later he texted me asking why I haven’t texted him since. I said “I don’t have anything to talk about… but feel free to text me whenever”. He then said “are you playing some game with me?” I said “No” and then he said “I don’t believe you… I think you are falling in love with me” and I said “well, I am not. I won’t try to convince you I’m not. Let’s just wrap this up and don’t contact each other again” he then freaked out “ohhh so you are giving up already? Don’t you want to discuss this?” And I said “I have nothing to discuss with you” then he said some other things but I didn’t even bother checking his texts anymore because I didn’t had interest in what he had to say anymore.

Why men can’t just enjoy casual sex without acting like freaks? Why they always think we are going to fall in love with them? Is this reoccurring with plus size women? Do they think we have such low self esteem we fall for anyone who sleeps with us?