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Has anyone ever experienced times when you glance at a girl or you're looking in her general direction, or she walks in your line of sight or anything like that, but they always look the other way, avoid eye contact, or see you looking and do everything she can to not look back at you or in your direction?
If you're walking in a public place in their direction, they avoid you completely and move very fast to your flank as far away from you as possible.
For context, I'm 5'10", bald, have a well-kept ginger beard, and weigh between 20-23 st (about 320lbs).
I am well aware that no woman my age, give or take a few years younger or older, is going to be attracted to me. Let's be honest and call me what I am: a fat, bald, average-height white male.
I realize that my resting face looks angry, and unapproachable but I can't change that. To be cliche; I am actually a very nice guy & friendly. A gentle giant. Everyone who knows me well enough says I'm a lovely person and I'm handsome. Most of the time I think they just say these things for the sake of it.
This hasn't just started happening. It happens all the time and has been happening to me for as long as I can remember.
For me this, all relates to something I heard someone say which was something along the lines of; "There has to be some sort of physical attraction. If I'm not physically attracted to you, I'm not going to want to get to know you. I'm not going to walk up to you in a bar and start talking to you if I'm not even a little attracted to you."
I've never forgotten that. And I always think about it. It puts alot of doubt in myself and my self esteem takes a huge hit.
TL;DR: When glancing at an attractive woman or looking in her general direction or she walks in your line of sight. They always look the other way, avoid eye contact, or see me looking and do everything she can to not look back at you or in your direction. And avoid me completely.
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