So I’ve noticed that as a young adult, I get the most bold and disturbing messages on social media looking for pictures or physical relations (even as a minor which, ew.) However, there is not a PEEP irl. i’ve only ever dated one girl before, and I am currently dealing with a guy that is 3-4 years older than me who has a really weird habit if staring at me. Plus size guy, doesn’t take care of himself, i’m not interested whatsoever (he makes me really uncomfortable) That being said I’m open to dating literally almost anyone. Men, women, people outside of the gender binary, you name it. I care more about personality than looks, so the issue is people not wanting or liking me. More specifically, the people I like seem to have no interest in me. Does anyone know how to handle this?

Edit - I’m around 260 lbs,size 18-20 in pants and xl-xxl in tops, I’m wondering if this is a universal thing, and if so is it worth even trying to date? I only get unwanted attention from older guys, and I just feel so gross and fetishized. I just want a normal, teenage relationship with someone who I have lots in common with and who actually likes me, not in spite of how I look.