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I’ve been with my fiancé for a few years and he’s very sweet and such to me and the problem is basically in the bedroom. I’m usually the one asking for some fun time and it’s always met with “I’m tired” or “I’m too busy.” Which is totally fine! But the same days I’ll catch him masturbating instead. There are even nights where ill be laying next to him and wake up to him just finishing/starting. I asked him why he doesn’t just ask me or we could just masturbate together and he just says he doesn’t want to wake me or bother me. I asked if it was because of my weight and he hesitated at first but then said no. I pushed a little (bad on my part I guess. ) and he said he always did all the work. Which isn’t fair because I told him I’ll get on top but he says no so I’m super confused. He says he loves my size but I’m just kinda frustrated. He doesn’t ask for sex and I’m the only one asking and getting rejected over and over really sucks.
I never said everyone wanted to! (: I do see that he’s been at it for awhile so I’ll either ask or try to switch until he gets a moment to catch his breath. He doesn’t want me to do the work. I’ve done more than just get on top because I know how being in one position for a really long time could suck.
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Thank you! 💕 it’s mainly my own fears of “I’ll hurt him” and we have tried before but my legs kept giving out and I got frustrated. I haven’t tried reverse cowgirl yet! I’ll definitely try it out (: