Short version here, long version below. Need longish curved tapers for PA, somewhat affordable M and M ends, somewhat affordable straight barbells in 1 1/8" length with proper threaded balls and M and M ends.

Where does everyone go for jewelry. I had placed an order through painful pleasures and was happy with what was sent for the price. I am looking for size specific jewelry which looks like it might start to get expensive let alone custom ordered due to the length needed. Need 1 1/8 straight barbell for my ampallang which apparently isn't exactly common stock. No big deal but I can't find many choices under the $50 mark for the bar and balls.

Also looking for M and M ends but not sure how to judge the thread sizes and what will work together. The ends aren't exactly cheap either. $13 each was the cheapest I saw and upwards of $40 each. I don't want to be cheap and get bad material for jewelry but I didn't think my choices would amount to that kind of money.

Also separate question about stretching and tapers. I have looked but can't find curved tapers that aren't meant for ears. I have a PA I want to start stretching eventually but can't wrap my head around how a straight taper will work with how deep the piercing is versus the urethra opening at the tip without alot of discomfort or possible tearing of the hole versus stretching it.