I have to prefix this by saying I’m a 38M with some experience cold approaching at bars and I dont drink out, and I am confident I can tell the difference when a woman actually has interest in me/enjoying the convo versus just being nice.

3 recent encounters with dead end numbers:

1. Super hot, with her friends and pretty drunk and I was like just about the only guy there, we made out, got her number. No response when i texted next day—ill write that off to her having many options and i happened to be the good time in that moment.

2. This one super confusing. Very pretty, dont think she had much to drink, making her laugh a lot. Asked if i could talk to her again, she said yes. I said how do we do that? (Giving her an easy out like “instagram” or “ill see ya around”) but she suggested phone number. Then she typed her number into my phone and called it on the spot to make sure she had my number (not my suggestion). Then i text her the next day and it revealed that she texted me 10 min after i left the bar but “unsent” it. And yea… ghosted by her.

3. This one confusing too: beautiful but not out of my physical appearance league like the other two. Not very drunk. We started making out, she said she just wanted to kiss me all night. Her friend wanted to leave. I went to the bathroom, when i got back they were standing ready to go. She could have just said bye, but instead she made sure i knew she left her phone number on the table for me. Texted it the next day. Nothing.

Thoughts?