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I approached a chick at the mall the other day and I pretty much ended up hanging out with her for a bit probably a half an hour lol. It was the longest approach I ever did and I enjoyed every minute of it lol as most of my mall approaches until this one have been quick and short since I took on this journey of pickup.
We got to know each other pretty well. I lead most of the conversation and she reciprocated well. I noticed I'm really great at keeping a conversation going and when there were moments that would lead to silence I was quick to nullify it.
I also did tease her a bit in certain moments and made some jokes here and there while I walked with her throughout the mall but I know I could have done more specifically I could have created some more or even if any sexual tension.
I'm still lacking to do this in day game. I'm just stuck at mostly conversation and rapport building mixing with few jokes here and there and a little bit of teasing as well but I did make it known I was interested in her after seeking her boyfriend status and joking I may be her next one so she definitely knew I was interested in her during the middle part of our entire interaction.
I definitely did not implement kino. I did hug her at the end but that was about it.
I have initiated some kino at night game before in a previous approach by asking about the chick's tattoo while smoothly and slowly touching the area of the tattoo and also I will compliment the chick on her hair looking great that night while touching her hair/head. Those are the only 2 kino techniques I have performed so far.
I feel this is out of place in a mall day game setting though and I don't have any solid ideas or techniques to try.
What else can I do to implement some more sexual tension in day game such as a mall setting?
I was thinking looking back at my entire interaction with her some things I could have done. Here's what I thought of.
After already getting to know her real well during our walking together throughout the mall, I would grab her hand and tell her we will pretend to playfully be a couple at that moment only.
I was also thinking while we were walking, I would stop and see if she would stop and if she does, make strong deep eye contact or perform the triangular gazing technique I read about in The Game lol and tell her to give me a kiss and see if she actually does.
I need some ideas or techniques to try out next time.
PS I got ghosted but I believe creating more sexual tension would have improved my chances.
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Yup, I hear this story even from hardened veterans in the world of pick up.