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Giving compliments is at least for me the hardest part in cold approaching, when I was a kid I learned that saying mean things to girls and teasing them was super effective on getting them obsess over you. So effective was this that I was able to make fall in love with me the hotttest girl in my grade(I was 12 yo), ever since that age despite my unability to get laid I continued to treat girls like that just for fun and to feel some attention wich I got easily cause this behavior usually ended with me play fighting with girls,chasing and more often than not I will end up kissing this girls so my habit today is to give compliments only when they really deserve it, and in a offensive way like '' Is a shame you got such a nice ass on you being a fucking meathead" yea trust me girls really respond to that shit specially more slutty ones but one of the requisites in opening a girl is being clear with your intent and for me saying ''Hey I was walking to do 'x' and saw you, thought that you were beautiful and came to speak with you'' sounds so motherfucking soft and pussy behavior in fact yesterday I went out and cold approached a group of three girls had a 10 mins convo were I focused on Complimenting each of them only once, one of them because her style the other cause her cool tooth grills and the other one for her eyes there was a normal you know: I'VE RECEIVED THAT COMPLIMENT 1000 TIMES REACTION wich is weird cause this same girls are never cold approached by anyone in my town and the only regular daytime cold approacher that I know is me and other counted faces, yes we know everyones face we are only 6000-10000 people living here then I went to a nearby unisex gym were my and the homies train regullary and gave a hot white girl a ''my style'' compliment I said to her that she was going to make this nigga fall in love cause she has a lot of gym accesories and dating her could be profitable. The reaction was 2000 times better than with that simp behavior then with a hot school teacher the same I said to her that she was looking like a young hottie despite her age then boom good reaction, let me say that the ''honest'' compliments make me feel uncomfortable and as I follow ''The Flinch'' book teachings I must do it but HOW CAN I MAKE ''NORMAL" COMPLIMENTS SOUND LESS NEEDY? that is what I want to know.
PD: Writing this I think that I reached the answer without need for advice lol sorry guys this shit is a stinky self discovery post.
Bro break this shit up into spaces and paragraphs instead of hitting us with a massive wall of text
Iām not talking about ur grammar just hit the return key 2X after a paragraph
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Just press the return key twice brother after a few sentences