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9 Step first date same day lay guide - planning texting and escalating
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https://mindful-masculinity.org/2024/06/11/9-step-first-date-same-day-lay-guide-planning-texting-and-escalating/

I wrote this guide roughly 5 years ago on rapid escalation and how to get a girl to your place on the first date . Since i started daygame roughly 2017 it wasn't until 2019 that i had a system in place to getting the woman back to your place on the first date. Rapid escalation can be a useful tool but bear in mind any sort of guide or routine you do will have stumbling blocks and won't work 100 percent of time. You need options to get a system work just like you need sales to get a sales funnel working . If you just try this routine with 1 or 2 women it may capitulate the first time and you may find yourself frustrated. Similarly you wouldn't try one day game roll play with one set you'd spread it with 100-200 sets and look for trends as a result. Rejection and failed dates are part of the game . Also this depends on the women's ideology and their personal views of course. If a woman is rigorsly conservative and religious then rapid escalation is really unlikely to work regardless of your SMV or your game on the first date .

Also note that when trying this there were numerous occasions in which the girl got back to mine and the sex didn't occur. There was even one occasion when a Hong Kong girl took a 40 minute cab to mine just to say she wanted a cuddle at 3am and slept next to me . Just because you get a woman back to yours on the first date doesn't necessarily mean its going to end up in sex on the first date- more often than not it didn't on the first date.

Re: Text game- I am no text game professional - it's not my expertise and as I said before I am not a dating coach- this is a free guide which i wrote 5 years ago and I am well aware that my text isn't particularly good or on a "master" level. The texts I've included in this guide were what worked for me in those specific situations with those girls in question- there might be other objections you face that are different than mine . Of course a lot of my daygame numbers would flake - around 70 percent would and i am not going to share those screenshots because that would make for a very boring guide lol . What you're seeing are the outliers of a lot of daygame approaches - the 1-2 percent of girls that are very responsive and keen to meet . Don't think every woman I am texting is eager to meet up for a date- far from it. Even Paul Janka who is a male model who went to Harvard who lived in New York said 1 in 10 of the phone numbers he got from cold approach actually ended up in lays. My statistics are roughly 1 in 14.

Any questions about the dates or planning dates feel free to just ask

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A beautifully written guide. Thanks for sharing 👍🏼

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Yeah it’s so easy for jokes to go wrong especially the woman being a stranger. You don’t know that you might accidentally push her buttons or something. I’m learning sometimes it’s good to be a little serious and to the point. I’ve lost a few on just taken the wrong way.

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Yeah I agree text game is hard. Better off just doing things in person for better connection. Some things get lost on technology. you know

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