Hi, I'm ftm. Me (37) and my gay bf (33) are trying for a baby.

He got a circumcision last year due to phimosis (this is relevant please bear with me). It'll be one year in 2 weeks. Everything seems to be in working order and sex is great, no longer painful, etc.

But sometimes he comes dry, orgasming without ejaculating. And sometimes he can't tell wether he came or not.

Last night he came 3 times in an hour. He says without ejaculating (and frustrated about it since we're trying for a baby). But after orgasm #1 he kept going and I felt liquid running out and down my arse. I was like "why is he still pounding me?" But then I feared it was just my juiced running down? Because surely he would know whether he ejaculated or not, right? Besides no one produces THAT MUCH lubrication.

When I asked him about it after, he said he didn't think so but MAYBE he did come because he felt pressure in his pubis above his cock after/during that orgasm and that's why he couldn't ejaculate after. But then how did he keep going another half hour if he did ejaculate?

I need to know because if he did I need to start on the progesterone pessaries today to aid implantation as I have a lutheal phase defect and those are too expensive to put them in just in case.

So anyone else has this not knowing whether they ejaculated while coming? I ask here because many adult circumcisions are due to phimosis and this "I don't know if I came or not" happened to him pre surgery too so I know it's due to to phimosis.

Thanks in advance.