Problem:
I feel like I can’t find true love due to my specific attractions and preferences. I want to explore whether there are straight men who might be open to someone like me—a manly gay guy who is interested in cross-dressing (CD) privately to feel more feminine during intimacy.
Context:
I’m a good-looking, manly gay man with no trace of effeminacy. I’m only attracted to straight men and find it arousing when a straight man is attracted to a transwoman or someone with feminine features. However, I don’t want to transition because I’m happy with who I am.
Gay men don’t appeal to me, and while I’ve tried dating them, I’ve never felt aroused or connected. Straight men, on the other hand, aren’t typically attracted to someone like me. This makes me feel like finding true love is nearly impossible. I’ve realized that cross-dressing might help me feel more aligned with my desires in private, but I’m unsure how to approach this.
Previous Attempts:
• I’ve tried dating gay men, but I couldn’t feel aroused or emotionally fulfilled.
• I’ve considered whether transitioning could help, but I’m happy with who I am and don’t want to pursue that path.
• I’ve resigned myself to the belief that, for a straight man to be intimate with me, I’d have to pay them, which isn’t a situation I want to rely on.
Question/Request for Advice:
Do you think there are straight or bi men who might be interested in someone like me—manly on the outside but exploring femininity through cross-dressing in private? What steps can I take to navigate this unique situation and find meaningful connection?
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